Tip number 1
Flirt with your date or if you can't do that just look into her eyes
Tip number 2
Be prepared, revise some conversations you can have and even some jokes!
Tip number 3
Don't talk on a mobile, set it to busy and put it on silent, NEVER put your ipod on!
Tip number 4
Do not give up on the date until it is over, anything can happen!
Tip number 5
Know what you are gonna wear
Tip number 6
Dress for where you are going and be clean and well groomed.
Tip number 7
Be decisive about what your gonna do, your the man, make a decision but be flexiable.
Tip number 8
Work out how you are getting to the location of your date (easy).
Tip number 9
Be on time, lateness shows a lack of respect for your date (easy).
Tip number 10
Make sure you enjoy yourself (obviously).
Wednesday, 24 December 2008
Tuesday, 23 December 2008
How to get girls numbers by being yourself
How to get a girls number - Just by being yourself
Want to approach that hot girl at the bus stop, at the gym, at the mall, and get her number? These places can be much harder, psychologically to get girls numbers, as if you were in a club, a girl would expect to be chatted up, but not always in public! However, places like this make girls feel more comfortable and secure! So it is in fact easier to make contact with them when there is not loud music blurting out so that you can't even hear eachother!
Getting a girls number in public, by approaching her can seem very daunting at first, but when you think about it, it's not that hard or brave to do.
Step 1
I want you, when you go out (on the bus, to the mall) alone, try to make contact with as many strangers as possible! Whether it be a 50 year old man, a 10 year old girl, anybody! I want you to get used to meeting new people. You don't have to go up to them and introduce yourself, make a whitty sounding remark, comment on something in the area or ask for the nearest cinema (even though you don't need to know) and EVEN just smiling. yes smiling! The power of a smile is priceless when interacting with people.
Step 2
Make contact with as many girls as you can, in a friendly manor, not in a flirtatious way! Using examples above, make conversation, play games with yourself at how long you can keep a conversation alight for, before there is an awkward silence!
Step 3
Time to pluck up your courage and approach some girl's who aren't the most beautiful girl at the shop, on the bus like I said. You don't have to get her number or meet up, just talk and flirt if it seems appropriate
Step 4
By now, you should have experimented and found ways in personally you can find good openings to talk to people. So now we see a girl, a real stunner. She is shopping in a card shop. So first, we try and make eye contact, if you catch her eye, look her RIGHT in the eyes, do not stare with wide eyes but just stay casually fixed on her eyes. This can be the spark which can make a woman feel comfortable, if she smiles/looks right back for 3 or 4 seconds, then this is perfect!
Now, approach her duh! Give her a smile and either:
1. Ask her a question (relating to the environment around you, NOT "are you single?")
2. Compliment her, don't use terrible pick up lines like "is it hot in here, or just you?". Make the girl feel original, pick something out about her that stands out to you, and if nothing does...MAKE SOMETHING UP!
Once you get talking, leave on a high point, leave her wanting more. Make an excuse e.g. "I have to get back to some friends now" and then you can follow this up by saying "Do you have a phone?" she'll more than likely reply yes, if she does, toy with her... "Great.....can i borrow it to make a call quickly please? sorry to ask!" this will leave her JAW DROPPED if you've made any impact on her whatsoever. Then wait a second and laugh with a smile and say "kidding...so can i get your number?". When you get it tell her that it was nice to meet her and end on a joke or light hearted comment like "Don't worry, i'll only call you 6 times a day!..Joke."
If she says that she doesn't have a phone..I'd say something like "do you have electricity?" or something whitty. And then ask her if she's got email...if this is a yes, get it typed into your phone! She's always going to give an email away!
But this is just me talkin', after all i'm not a genious.. If you're looking for a bit more than this, i suggest you get your copy of the ultimate approaching ebook guide with psychological tips to approaching women and how to alter your appearance so that this practice will NEVER fait.
The ultimate approachal ebook.
Want to approach that hot girl at the bus stop, at the gym, at the mall, and get her number? These places can be much harder, psychologically to get girls numbers, as if you were in a club, a girl would expect to be chatted up, but not always in public! However, places like this make girls feel more comfortable and secure! So it is in fact easier to make contact with them when there is not loud music blurting out so that you can't even hear eachother!
Getting a girls number in public, by approaching her can seem very daunting at first, but when you think about it, it's not that hard or brave to do.
Step 1
I want you, when you go out (on the bus, to the mall) alone, try to make contact with as many strangers as possible! Whether it be a 50 year old man, a 10 year old girl, anybody! I want you to get used to meeting new people. You don't have to go up to them and introduce yourself, make a whitty sounding remark, comment on something in the area or ask for the nearest cinema (even though you don't need to know) and EVEN just smiling. yes smiling! The power of a smile is priceless when interacting with people.
Step 2
Make contact with as many girls as you can, in a friendly manor, not in a flirtatious way! Using examples above, make conversation, play games with yourself at how long you can keep a conversation alight for, before there is an awkward silence!
Step 3
Time to pluck up your courage and approach some girl's who aren't the most beautiful girl at the shop, on the bus like I said. You don't have to get her number or meet up, just talk and flirt if it seems appropriate
Step 4
By now, you should have experimented and found ways in personally you can find good openings to talk to people. So now we see a girl, a real stunner. She is shopping in a card shop. So first, we try and make eye contact, if you catch her eye, look her RIGHT in the eyes, do not stare with wide eyes but just stay casually fixed on her eyes. This can be the spark which can make a woman feel comfortable, if she smiles/looks right back for 3 or 4 seconds, then this is perfect!
Now, approach her duh! Give her a smile and either:
1. Ask her a question (relating to the environment around you, NOT "are you single?")
2. Compliment her, don't use terrible pick up lines like "is it hot in here, or just you?". Make the girl feel original, pick something out about her that stands out to you, and if nothing does...MAKE SOMETHING UP!
Once you get talking, leave on a high point, leave her wanting more. Make an excuse e.g. "I have to get back to some friends now" and then you can follow this up by saying "Do you have a phone?" she'll more than likely reply yes, if she does, toy with her... "Great.....can i borrow it to make a call quickly please? sorry to ask!" this will leave her JAW DROPPED if you've made any impact on her whatsoever. Then wait a second and laugh with a smile and say "kidding...so can i get your number?". When you get it tell her that it was nice to meet her and end on a joke or light hearted comment like "Don't worry, i'll only call you 6 times a day!..Joke."
If she says that she doesn't have a phone..I'd say something like "do you have electricity?" or something whitty. And then ask her if she's got email...if this is a yes, get it typed into your phone! She's always going to give an email away!
But this is just me talkin', after all i'm not a genious.. If you're looking for a bit more than this, i suggest you get your copy of the ultimate approaching ebook guide with psychological tips to approaching women and how to alter your appearance so that this practice will NEVER fait.
The ultimate approachal ebook.
How to text a girl properly
The first text:
Must: Be interesting (even crazy), confident, seem busy, show her your personality, keep it short and sweet.
Avoid: seeming boring or like you have nothing to do, being negative, talking about too sensitive things.
Flirting:
Start to: Put kisses on texts, call her some light petting names to begin with, give her hints that you want her, progressing later on.
Avoid: Being too direct, keep it suggestive.
Setting up a date:
Be: Casual, psychologically talk her into a date indirectly by saying e.g. "I'll pick you up at about 5 then?" rather than "want to go on a date?".
Avoid: Acting too bothered, putting too much effort into it
This is just a select portion of my knowledge, this took me about 5 minutes to write up, just free writing! However there is much more to texting than this article shows! For the most advanced tips you will find..just about anywhere online quite frankly, go to - texting tips for men where you can sign up for a free report on "5 things to double your texting skills with women"
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